New Year’s Resolutions.

On January 1st its impossible not to talk about new year’s resolutions. We spend the days before new year’s eve making mental notes about how we are going to become better people, lose weight, find true love, get our dream jobs and become the ultimate version of  ourselves. We examine our lives and take all the aspects we dislike and decide that next year will be the year we will get rid of them. However all these resolutions generally end up being empty promises since by the end of January most of us will have thrown in the towel and stopped working toward the goals we set for ourselves at the beginning of the new year.

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So lets talk about the reasons why we generally fail to make these resolutions come true:

They are too vague – Saying “I want to lose weight” is not the same as saying “I want to lose 10 pounds by March.” If you don’t set up a very specific goal it becomes hard to know what you are working towards and it makes it even harder to hold yourself accountable for making your resolution come true.

They are too aspirational – Yeah its great to make a resolution such as “I’m going to lose 100 pounds” or “I am going to be a famous writer” but realistically speaking it is very unlikely you will achieve something so big which may end up discouraging you from pursuing these goals once you come to the realization that they are almost impossible to attain. Instead aim for something doable such as “I am going to write 500 words a day” or “I am going to lose 5 pounds a month.” You will then realize that these little goals will add up to huge results by the time December rolls around.

Lack of planning – Making resolutions such as “I will travel the world” or “I will work out every day” will not happen if you don’t plan accordingly. For the former you need to figure out where you want to go and when you will have enough vacations/ample funds in order to make this trip happen. For the latter you will need to join a gym, figure out which classes you would like to take and how to fit them into your schedule. This applies to pretty much every resolution, if you don’t plan accordingly you are more likely to drop the ball on whatever promise you made to yourself.

You are delusional – I’m sorry but finding true love is not something you can resolute to and you will never become Taylor Swift, no matter how hard you try.

You shouldn’t have to wait until January 1st to become a better person – Most of the time the things we put on our resolution list are things we’ve had on our minds for a long time. So why wait until January 1st to finally make them happen? Why not make them happen December 1st, October 31st, on the first day of summer or on Valentine’s day? Don’t put off anything you truly want to accomplish because you fear you will not make it come true.

So this year I have decided that instead of making a long list of things that I am going to change once the new year starts, I am going to set a new goal or two every month and accomplish it. The thing about starting small is that once you start making small changes you will see huge results, and by the time the year ends you will definitely be Taylor Swift that improved version of yourself you so wanted to see.

Here is my January resolution: I will start writing again (being specific here) I’m aiming at 3 blog posts per week and at least one published article a month (being realistic here) since I spent the majority of 2014 trying out basically every workout and boutique fitness class in New York I will begin by reviewing every single one of them (oh hey, a plan!) and I will start by reviewing my absolute favorite class in the city Physique 57.

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Stay tuned!

Yoga A Manicure And A Hairdo? There’s An App For That.

In our technology crazed world it seems that we can get virtually anything we want with a few clicks and a few taps on our phone. But what happens when you want beauty, fitness or fun “on demand”? Here are 3 apps that will provide anything from at home manicures to blowouts to personal trainers all from the comfort of your smartphone.

Priv

Priv: This app offers a wide range of services like at home blowouts and private yoga sessions and massages all delivered to your home. It employs a big team freelance professionals whom are ranked via a tier system based on relevant experience, years in the business, and celebrity clientele. What’s even more amazing is that the app shows you the candidate that is closest to you at the moment, so you know exactly how long you will have to wait for their services. Think: Uber for manicures.

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Glamsquad: Glamsquad if your on demand beauty salon. Like seamless but for beauty services. You select from a wide menu of beauty services, plug in your credit card, set up an appointment and voila! You can get all the services you normally have to travel to multiple salons for, all at the comfort of your home or office. What’s even more convenient about it is that all transactions are made through the app, so you don’t even have to worry about taking out cash to pay you beautician.

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Vensette: Vensette can be considered the Net-A-Porter of on demand beauty services. It’s main focus is to provide it’s clientele with high end beauty services such as full makeup applications and sophisticated up-dos. It’s the kind of app one would use when going to a wedding or a formal event. What’s even more awesome is that one can look through a makeup artist’s or hairstylist’s professional portfolio before deciding who to hire. It sure eliminates having to worry about what the end product is going to look like!

To Cool For School.

Sportswear is having a big moment in fashion. Whether it’s Chanel’s Boxerinas or the launch of Net-a-Sporter it seems that comfort and functionality are the new LBD. This has made almost any and every fashion house incorporate a luxury backpack into their accessory repertoire, since women want a practical bag that is elegant at the same time. Here are a few of our favorite luxury backpacks, we wouldn’t be surprised if you decide to trade your trapeze for a comfier model.

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